Reflections

What? Didn't I just write a blog post about the year ending? 2014 is over. Once again I'm glad it's time for a new year. I thought last year was difficult. I definitely wasn't ready for this year. Yeah we did some cool shows and performed for more people this year than ever before but man has it been emotionally exhausting.
As I look back I'm kinda disappointed at how little we did this year. It was a hard year of lots of transitions. Everyone kept saying this is your year, this is your year. Well yes now I see it but it took until the very end to get there.
January brought that awesome bull riding show with our biggest audience to date. I also experienced Disney World for the first time. I never dreamed I would get to go there, and now I want to go back EVERYDAY.

Our marriage went through some hard times and we did quite a bit of counseling but I'm happy to say our relationship is healing and our marriage is stronger than ever before. I love Brandon more everyday.

Spring, I don't have a flipping clue what happened. I mean we did some shows but nothing significant.
Summer, there's always a bunch of shows especially at the Sea Mist resort. We did the super legit show at Alabama Theatre and got some good footage for promo videos, which we will definitely be putting out next year. We also said our final goodbyes to our sweet dog and that spun me into depression for a little while.
Fall we spent packing and getting ready to move and then everything changed which was very frustrating and exciting at the same time. We can't wait to tell you guys about the super amazing news.
Winter is kinda just starting. December's been fun getting everything finalized. Oh and I met a 637 pound sea lion named Bruce. Kind of one of my favorite things ever.

Looking forward to a fresh start. I'm gonna back into my yoga. We got a juicer, so I'm starting that soon. Brandon has agreed to become vegetarian with me. Well we will see how long it will last for him haha. I'm getting off my birth control because I'm sick of taking chemicals everyday. It's time to get my body in the shape I want it to be. I'm hoping to get a car this year. We will be looking into atleast renting a house by this time next year. Our new job already has us a lot of shows lined up for next year and we can't wait to see how far we improve over the year. Next year we are getting new costumes, a much needed photoshoot, website revamp, and promo video. And hopefully that new illusion. It's time for some change. "Stagnation is artistic death"
Well I may or may not actually stay up until the ball drops because we just had a show a few hours ago and I'm exhausted. Eh I'll probably nap until right before. But I'm gonna atleast go drink my sparkling grape juice and kiss Brandon to start out 2015 right. Happy New Years Everyone! I'll see ya on the flip side.

Change of Plans

Soooo this is awkward. After our huge announcement, guess who's NOT moving? 

Yep, that's exactly how I felt. Well like they always say God has better plans for His children. Something came up here in Myrtle Beach literally a month to the day of us moving. Everything is still under wraps right now but we're hoping to be able to announce something soon. Sorry for all the confusion!
I've been itching to blog and let everyone know but it's been insanity.
Now we're just trying to get back to "normal". We unpacked the majority of our stuff and redecorated. You guys we bought our first lamp, we're growing up. *sniffle* Since we are staying we atleast wanted things to be different... That includes this. I spent like 2 days redoing the entire look of the blog. Please tell me you like the changes!
The background is that awesome pattern we like to use for all our promo stuff and it looks like Haunted Mansion wall paper. Double win. Then I got the purple colors to match our logo. The Frozen picture is our inside joke. You'd be amazed at how many times a child will look at Brandon before a show and say that. We always bust out laughing. I now have a bio. Woohoo! I'm ashamed it took so long to get all these things done.
We are working on new illusions now which is super exciting. Brandon has a halfway working prototype for an illusion that he will do. We are working on a new illusion for me as well.
In other awesome news, I got to play in another illusion. My bucket list includes getting in as many different illusions as I possibly can, not necessarily perform them but just get in them. I've now performed in 8 and played with 5. The wonderful Josh & Lea Knotts let us play in one of theirs this past week at the state fair. It was crazy deceptive!

Well that was all rather random but that's what has been going on lately. I'll keep you updated with all the big stuff. If I don't post again before the 31st, Happy Halloween! (Considering it's my favorite holiday I'm sure I will)

Final Bows at the Beach

Long time no blog.
I apologize for taking so long to post again. Summer is a little insane to say in the least. Life has been changing drastically. Some good things, some bad things.
First things first, summer ended officially on August 27th for us. We think we did 47 shows and 13 magic classes but there may have been more. Oops. Shows went a little different this year, I did a lot more in the show like we planned which started out really bad but got better once we found the balance.
 We started to find a good schedule and get in the swing of things. Then our dog got hurt. Or so we thought. We had a lot of back and forth emergency vet visits, medicines, and very long nights. Then on the morning of August 7th she got sick, really sick and we just knew she was leaving us. I made the hardest decision of my life on August 8th by putting my best friend of 11 years out of suffering. Turns out we think she had kidney cancer. It was a long summer for all 3 of us.

Shows have been difficult lately. It's been hard to keep my shine onstage. It's hard to pretend to be happy to make others happy. I know she is healed and no longer hurting but my heart has never felt so broken and empty. Only time can heal wounds this deep. Life goes on even with it's storms and we learn to cope. We get stronger.
We made the decision around March or April to move our lives on to another place. This season of us living in Myrtle Beach is wrapping up. We've decided to not make a huge deal out of it and people will really only find out through either reading this or our newsletter which you can sign up for here: http://eepurl.com/FjeKH. We are moving to the upstate here in South Carolina, the Greenville area. Not only will it be easier for travel (we can hit all surrounding states in 2 hours) but it also will be more year round work. Obviously when living at the beach it is seasonal work for only 3 months.
We have loved living here and of course we will miss it but we really feel as though we are being called to move. It's been a great 2 1/2 years and so many wonderful people have helped us feel at home here.
Even just this summer we have done some really exciting things like perform at The Alabama Theatre for over 1400 people. Still waiting to get the photos from that but I promise they will get posted. We will never forget all the awesome memories we have made here. The beach will always be part of us, it was our first home together. Our careers really started here. We will always come back and perform here, visit here. The salty air and waves are medication to my soul and honestly it worries me to think how I can go without it soon. I guess I'll have to get a CD that has the sounds of waves on it.

Right now it's September and we are moving in October, I know we aren't giving much warning but this was a decision that we made and wanted to keep it to ourselves while we finalized things. So from the beach to the mountains we go! We found a place this past weekend and we are already so in love with our new town. It will be nice being closer to what used to be home to us. Family will only be about 1 1/2 hours as opposed to 3. It will be much easier to come and go as we please and we can raise our own family there. (No, not yet. Just planning ahead.)
I feel like I'm rambling, there's so much I wanted to say before over the past couple of months and never got to but now those things don't seem so important in the big scheme of things. This chapter of our life has come to an end, we are turning the page to start the next part and I can't wait to see where it takes us. Please keep us in your prayers and we will keep you updated with how things are moving along.

Practice Makes Perfect

Practice until it's perfect. Rehearse until you curse.
A big part of our job is rehearsing new material. Or rehearsing old material to make it stronger. It is one of the most stressful, frustrating, and fun parts of our job. Working with my husband definitely has it's perks. We're best friends so we always make things interesting. Such as tonight I rehearsed in a mermaid clamshell bra. Anyone judging me? I thought not.

Right now we are working on a mostly new show for the Sea Mist resort that we will be performing at this summer. Finally I have a lot of speaking lines. Which means we are having to walk through the script line by line right now. And with that comes laughing. If there is any point that either one of us can reference a movie, book, or tv show from one of our lines we definitely do. Especially SpongeBob, when all else fails, quote SpongeBob. Or Frozen. Or just Disney in general.
One of our new magic effects will be a mentalism routine; I will be reading people's minds. Of course to convince people I'm not cheating I have to wear a blindfold. Reading a new script while blindfolded is not the easiest task.
While I've always loved rehearsing the illusions the most, I've come to really enjoy some of our new interaction pieces. Interacting with Brandon or an audience member can always be challenging but it makes for a more interesting show. Of course the "volunteers" that Brandon and I pretend to be for each other would never be that odd. We always give them interesting names and voices or make them as difficult to deal with as possible.
I honestly think if people can't have fun while working together as a team then it's not worth it. Making faces or dancing at random moments always keeps everything light. Or atleast we try to. Somedays aren't so easy. Some of the more physically challenging illusions could hurt one of us and put us in a bad mood or if we're just mad at each other (because we are a couple after all) that also definitely effects how rehearsal goes. Somedays I really get fed up with picking up playing cards.

That's part of the act though. The mess is enough to drive my OCD up the wall. We had a maintenance guy come in earlier and he had to deal with something in our magic room, I totally forgot we didn't clean it up after rehearsal last night. I'm sure he thought we were slobs. It's a jumbo rainbow of a mess.
I definitely know all the hours we put into our show pays off though. My new solo routine is coming along nicely and I can't wait to see how the mind reading is received. If you're in the Myrtle Beach area this summer you will have to come stay at the Sea Mist and see our show! Until then, it's back to rehearsal!

"Amateurs practice until they get it right; Professionals practice until they can't get it wrong" 

Miss Direction

When a magician waves his hand and says, "This is where the magic is happening." The real trick is happening somewhere else. Misdirection.

The quote above is from the movie Now You See Me. While watching it the other day for the first time since it was in the theaters, I finally got to really take in the movie. One of it's main themes is misdirection. The key to magic. Without it, well there wouldn't be "magic".
Now we assistants are usually blamed for all misdirection. Most people say oh sure, put any girl in a skimpy outfit and the magician can sneak an elephant onstage. While this could be true, I guess, that's definitely not how we do it in our show. I don't need to rely on my body to change where someone is looking.
There are a million different ways to keep attention away from what's really going on. Everyone knows that something sneaky has to happen, they just don't know where or when. And it's my job to see that it stays that way. Now that's not to say that I do all of it, Brandon does it too of course. But it is easier to rely on each other to cover for one another than to do it all alone.
Misdirection is a skill. I don't care what anyone has to say opposing that. The beauty of misdirection is you should never see it. It should be invisible. If you noticed a magician or assistant trying to make you look somewhere else, then obviously they failed. As a performer if you accomplish this, it's one of the satisfying feelings in the world. But on the opposing end, if they fooled you, it's one of the most frustrating things in the world. I'll never forget how many times during seeing Penn & Teller's show out in Vegas that I was just like holy crap, when did I look the wrong way? Or in their case, the right way.

As humans, we can't help it. We like order. So we naturally do what we're told. Whether it is someone actually "speaking" to us or not. The way that we misdirect could be a number of different things. But of course, all are natural. Our body language, facial expressions, a wave of the hand. All of things can cause redirection and misdirection. Where I look, you look. It's only natural. I look so fascinated by what Brandon is doing, you automatically want to see what I see. You want to feel what I am feeling. It's all part of the experience.
I'm not gonna lie, it's one of the harder parts of doing magic. Trying to concentrate enough on what you're doing, while not looking like you're doing what you're doing is extremely difficult. I'm working on my first silent solo magic piece and I have to do what magicians call "stealing". So obviously I have to use misdirection. And it's not easy. I can't check it or watch my hands. It's all about using a bigger motion to cover a smaller motion. Or just being gutsy. That can work too.

"It's so overt it's covert" -Robert Downey Jr, Sherlock Holmes

I'm not trying to give away some big secret here, I'm pretty sure everyone knows something sneaky is happening. It is magic after all. You watch it to be fooled, something has to hide the action of the trick so it can be magic. My misdirection has definitely improved over the years, maybe one day we can work up to full elephant status.